Linda Darlene Wilder the daughter of Ruby Mae (Manus) Stacey was born September 15, 1958 in Tahlequah, Oklahoma and departed this life on December 31, 2017 in Tulsa, Oklahoma at the age of 59 years, 3 months and 16 days.
Darlene loved life. She loved her family and her cat Pogo. She enjoyed visiting with friends and family. She loved the Lord and she loved her church family at Cedar Tree Baptist. She spent a lot of time reading her Bible and she loved singing at church. She enjoyed her role as a homemaker and she enjoyed sewing and cooking. Darlene touched many lives and wil be dearly missed by all who knew and loved her.
She was preceded in death by her parents, and brother David Lee Manus.
She is survived by a loving family which includes her husband Billy Ray Wilder of the home; daughter Crystal Wilder-Galvan and husband Joey of Vian, OK; son Gary Wayne Wilder of Tahlequah, OK; stepson Alex (Bear) Wacoche of Hulbert, OK; brothers Carl Stacey and wife Melanie of Tahlequah, OK; Shelby Stacey and wife Kimberly of Tahlequah, OK; and 8 grandchildren and 1 great grandchild. Several nieces, nephews, friends and other relatives, also survive her.